<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[www.happygoabby.com]]></title><description><![CDATA[My Site]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/my-blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 03 May 2026 05:29:32 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[This Part Counts Too]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s this quiet pressure that comes with being in your 20s. It doesn’t always come from the people around you, sometimes it’s just the constant scroll. The milestones. The announcements. The highlight reels of everyone else’s lives moving forward in big, visible ways. Promotions. Engagements. Weddings. New homes. Big moves. Big moments. And they are big. They’re beautiful. They deserve to be celebrated. But somewhere along the way, it can start to feel like those are the only moments that...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/this-part-counts-too</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69ef92e450140b3580688d26</guid><pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 16:48:51 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/38b90b_bae5d2b18fd84b4da0acfa03a2c1bdf9~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Nothing Ever Went Wrong]]></title><description><![CDATA[I’ve been thinking a lot lately about how nothing in my life has ever really  gone wrong. At the time, it definitely felt like it did.Plans didn’t work out.Things fell apart.Opportunities slipped away.People came and went.I questioned decisions I made and wondered if I should’ve taken a different path. But somehow… I always end up exactly where I’m supposed to be. Your 20s, especially the middle to later part, are such a strange in-between. There’s this quiet (and sometimes not so quiet)...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/nothing-ever-went-wrong</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a879feb9582c4b5c8c828f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 18:29:59 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Safe Place]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have always been the one who stays. The one who answers before the phone finishes ringing. The one who listens until the words run out. The one who remembers what hurt you long after everyone else has forgotten. I hold people in their unraveling. I sit with the weight of their stories, their fear, their grief, their becoming. I do not rush healing. I do not ask for tidy endings. I just stay. And I mean it when I say— come to me. I never want the people I love to feel like they are too much....]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/the-safe-place</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69937417884976137daa8cf9</guid><pubDate>Mon, 16 Feb 2026 19:46:32 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The In-Between of Belonging]]></title><description><![CDATA[Nobody talks about the quiet ache of feeling like nothing belongs to you anymore. The slow slipping of fingers from the things you once...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/the-in-between-of-belonging</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68e5d9ee2475287a1101b136</guid><pubDate>Wed, 08 Oct 2025 03:27:49 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[There are really beautiful people in this world]]></title><description><![CDATA[There are really beautiful people in this world. I’m talking the kind of beauty that makes you pause for a second look.The kind that...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/there-are-really-beautiful-people-in-this-world</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68ac667483b21ae138f649f3</guid><pubDate>Mon, 25 Aug 2025 13:35:32 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[In a world where you can be anything…]]></title><description><![CDATA[You’ve probably heard the phrase “In a world where you can be anything, be kind.” And while that’s true and beautiful, lately I’ve been...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/in-a-world-where-you-can-be-anything</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68a5427fdfc320cdd4651272</guid><pubDate>Wed, 20 Aug 2025 03:37:22 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/38b90b_3e73d1f3658d4c579129c811428ed40b~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[To the Incoming Freshman: A Love Letter]]></title><description><![CDATA[Dear College Freshman, You’re about to begin one of the most transformative chapters of your life. And no, I’m not saying that in a...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/to-the-incoming-freshman-a-love-letter</link><guid isPermaLink="false">685c0b926d1c6845c290a45f</guid><pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2025 14:51:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/38b90b_4174b5d9d6dc47289d917df3ba7fe80a~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Grief Is Strange Like That]]></title><description><![CDATA[Grief is strange. It doesn’t follow rules. It doesn’t care what day it is or where you are or how long it’s been. It just shows up —...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/grief-is-strange-like-that</link><guid isPermaLink="false">685aea72d23146f4349662cb</guid><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2025 18:14:44 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/38b90b_d5f5355a282e43efba0882b8d2c84ab8~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Weight I Wear (even when nobody asks me to) ]]></title><description><![CDATA[I don’t know when I started carrying so much. Not in my hands, but in my chest. Tight—like a thread pulled too far, a silent tension I...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/the-weight-i-wear-even-when-nobody-asks-me-to</link><guid isPermaLink="false">68407ff8b71e90848f59bbc0</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Jun 2025 17:25:22 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Let me Deinfluence You]]></title><description><![CDATA[Me: Living One of my favorite trends right now is “let me deinfluence you.” It’s this gentle rebellion against the pressure to have more,...]]></description><link>https://abbygjank.wixsite.com/happygoabby/post/let-me-deinfluence-you</link><guid isPermaLink="false">683745fbc2ed710b96cebb89</guid><pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2025 17:22:02 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/38b90b_2211ed5853504646b479e8f6c0c19414~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>abbygjank</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[The Ultimate Role Model - My Dad]]></title><description><![CDATA[If you know anything about me, you know my dad is my greatest role model. 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